Hmm, can their not be a third opinion? The dynamic I see the most in these cases is the woman has problem with a need to control. Sometimes the man pushes back and the relationship ends (she will blame him) or the women controls more and more as the man tries to placate her but it is never ending and then the disrespect and blame starts (he's ADHD, he's a man-child). Perhaps the best plan for both parties is not what this article suggests but ending the relationship and being happy living your life the way you want to or finding someone more compatible?