LOL, of course! We are people chatting on a slightly frivolous Medium article not at a high level academic conference. But here is some data from PEW for you . https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Seems like overall there are exacly the same number of single men and women. But later it says more men say they are still looking than women.